Week 12
I have had several conversations
with a certain person that irks me from time to time. He does not fail to make a
female feel like she is less than. We definitely do not see eye to eye when it
comes to culture, language, or a woman’s worth. This person constantly makes
jokes that only he laughs at, which obviously makes them sound like insults to others.
I believe that his actions and the way he looks down upon people a certain way says
a lot about his culture rather than the religion of Islam, as different Arabic
cultures do not in any way define Islam.
Islam holds women in highest regard in every phase of her life. Islam states, “when she is a daughter, she opens a door of heaven for her father. When she is a wife, she completes half of the religion of her husband. When she is a mother, heaven lies under her feet.” Men are required to treat women with honor and respect in all circumstances. The Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him said, “None but a noble man treats women in an honorable manner, and none but an ignorant man treats women disgracefully.”
I hope one day this man stumbles upon this blog. This
one is for you.
Wow, this was a really good blog. This is not only informative in a way that it tells what is inappropriate while speaking, it is also informative in how woman are valued in your culture. This is great!
ReplyDeleteWow--this person sounds like a total creep! It shows a lot of self-control not to haul off and smack him one! There is no excuse for treating people like this.
ReplyDeleteYou must have a lot of self-restraint, which I think is very admirable. I would have yelled at him so quickly if he said anything like that to me.
ReplyDeleteThank God I do! I was always taught to respect our elders and if they're wrong to change it with our tongues, and it that doesn't work, to change it with out hands. And if that does not work to change it in our hearts. Its safe to say he a is a lost cause.
DeleteIt sounds like he deserves the ol 1-2 combo! I'm kidding, fighting never solves anything it only makes the situation worse. I enjoyed this blog, Ruba. I'm a firm believer in what goes around comes around so hopefully this individual has his coming!
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